Did you think you were God??

~Erin Blair

My husband and I love Alfred Hitchcock movies. They are different from the modern horror films that are more gore and hack-and-slash with no plot. We appreciate the Hitchcock films for “turning our wheels” and making us think, making our mind do the tricks for us. One of our favorites is the film “Rope” staring Jimmy Stewart. This probably isn’t considered a horror film like, say, Psycho, but the other day I was thinking of a wonderful point this film made.

Let me give a brief synopsis. Two college students decide to murder via strangulation another student because they determined he was intellectually inferior. They then stuffed his body in a trunk and served food off the same trunk later that day at a party they hosted in their apartment. One of the guests they invited was their college professor played by Jimmy Stewart. They thought that killing this “inferior” student would impress their professor. But Jimmy Stewart’s reaction, which in my opinion is one of the best speeches in movie history, has stuck with me:

“…Tonight you’ve made me ashamed of every concept I ever had of superior or inferior beings. And I thank you for that shame. Because now I know that we’re each of us a separate human being, Brandon, with the right to live and work and think as individuals, but with an obligation to the society we live in. By what right do you dare say that there’s a superior few to which you belong? By what right did you dare decide that that boy in there was inferior and therefore could be killed? Did you think you were God, Brandon? Is that what you thought when you choked the life out of him? Is that what you thought when you served food from his grave? …You’ve murdered! You’ve strangled the life out of a fellow human being who could live and love …”


With all the politics swarming around us today involving rulings on abortion and “mercy” killings and ISIS, this snippet keeps echoing in my mind. What is the sanctity of life? Who determines who has the right to live or die?

God is the One who created life (Gen. 2:7, 22). He is the One who created man in His image (Gen. 1:26) and therefore made man a special being, different and superior to all the animals and plants. When God made man, He “made man upright, but they have sought out many inventions.” (Eccl. 7:29) When man gets “puffed up” and thinks he is smarter or “hot stuff” than he should or really is, that’s when trouble begins (Rom. 12:3; Gal. 6:3). That’s when he starts thinking himself more knowledgeable than God or just throws God “out the window.”

Who are we as people to think we can determine what life is to be spared and which is to be “killed off” or is inferior? God has created man in His image! We are all deserving of life and none are more or less inferior in any way to another. As I sit here and type this, I can feel my son moving and kicking. Who dares determine if his life is less important than another? Who are we to judge life that God created? We need to learn to respect life, whether in the womb or in the nursing home, for all souls are important in the sight of God. Christ died for all mankind and that puts a very high importance on all human life!

Erin resides in Ben Wheeler TX with her husband, Jordan and is awaiting the birth of their first child, Judah Rae Blair. Erin has been involved with preparing and organizing the work of the church since she was a teenager by teaching all ages of Bibles classes, helping prepare and organize Ladies Days, Prom Alternatives, Youth Rallies and VBS.  She is currently works as a paralegal for a law firm. She and her husband also spend their time enjoying their garden, dogs, rabbits, chickens, ducks, quail…etc.  Life is never dull at her house. 

Can you do your sisters a favor...Please??

~Tracy Frederick

I am pretty tired. I’ve had to make some tough decisions lately in regard to my job so I have lost some hours of sleep. Ok, I realize it is just a job; I get it. It is just something to pay the bills and it is not eternity…but, in a way, it is….you see, how I behave toward others determines if others see me as honest and trustworthy and ultimately reflects…yep, on my Father so even though it is just a job, it is more than just a job, you know?

But, what was difficult about accepting about the new position is not knowing how to do it. I’ve never done it before. I have some good and bad examples, but no experience so it feels like I am going into the great abyss with only a candle…a birthday candle at that. Ok, I know I’m not, but it kinda feels that way….and for those who know me, know that I like knowing. I like being prepared and able to predict the road ahead. I like knowing. So, I reached out to people I trust and asked: Can you do me a favor…please? If you see me going down the wrong road, or see me about to make a mistake, will you please…please…please tell me to stop and backup? Will you please let me know if I say something stupid? I don’t want to fail and it is hard walking this path...alone....in the dark.

So, as the overwhelming responsibility of my new position caught up with me I thought about those who I trust will “have my back” and then I wondered about more important matters…. if my spiritual sisters have my spiritual back. I mean, what if a sister sees that I am about to break my leg (spiritually speaking) and said nothing. I wonder if she wouldn’t say anything because she thinks I believe it isn’t her business. Or maybe she’s afraid that I would get angry with her? Wow! Yeah…I think that I, or we, maybe haven’t been as welcoming to help as we should and you know, that’s not how the Lord designed His church. In Luke 10 our Savior sent out His apostles in pairs. He knew that they were going to face difficult situations. He knew that they needed each other to find the path; to help each other just like He knows we need the same thing- each other to get it back on track.

And so, I wonder if we, in the most important “job” that we’ve been given- our spiritual service- if we think we can go it on our own. Just like in my new position, I can’t watch everything. I will make mistakes. I can’t always see the problems ahead. Spiritually we may not realize when we mess up…just like we can’t always tell if something looks good on us…we need someone to be honest with us…tell us the truth even when it hurts. We’re a little prejudice, you know? We think we’ve got it together, even when we don’t.

So, I have a favor to ask….a really…really big favor. Please tell me when you see me mess up. Please don’t let me fail in my spiritual walk. I know that it may be hard to speak up. I know that we believe that others don’t want to hear it…but if we are truly working for that spiritual success, we will want the help. So, can’t you do your sister a favor…please?

Expectations

~Tracy Frederick

It is the beginning of another semester and I am in my 26th year of teaching. I have learned that although students change, they always stay the same. Every semester…yep every semester…when I ask them to send me their “concerns” for the class- so I know their anxieties, they have- they never failed to tell me that my reputation as a “tough teacher” precedes me, or “I hear that this class is very hard.” And every semester I pause before I respond. My first thought is: Of course I am “hard,” this is education! Or “Yes, this class is hard, if it weren’t why take it?!” …sigh… but their expectations for classes are always the same- it should be easy and I shouldn’t have such high expectations of them.

So, when I started reading them again this semester, I began to think about my own spirituality…and others. I realized how often I have thought the same thing of my Father: I have become upset and frustrated when the Christian walk is “hard” or discouragement hits me and I fall to my knees, or when I would like for Him to just “overlook” a sin.

I always respond to my student’s concerns about the class with: “Yes, it will be hard, but you can do it. You will learn a lot and if you follow the detailed instructions- offered for every assignment- and ask for help. I will do all that I can to help you succeed. I will model all speeches for you to offer you a real-life example.” And this seems to make them feel better…until the semester gets a little tough and I have to remind them again that I am here to help, to encourage and to offer instructions on how to succeed.

Yep, it is difficult to admit that I am not much better than those young people that I teach. I don’t know if you are like I am, but this morning as I was reading through the concerns, my mind drifted to the great encouragement that my Savior provided for me, to remind me that if it will NEVER be “easy” …it WILL be hard….So I need to stop expecting it to be differnt; to stop expecting it to be easy and just read the detailed instructions, ask for help and look to my Master Teacher who provides all I need to succeed.

John 15: 18-19 If the world hates you, you know that it hated me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love his own: but because you are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.

Romans 5:3-5 And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope. Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.

Romans 8:18 For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.

Philippians 4:12-13 I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

James 1:2 My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.

James 1:12 Blessed is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him.

Romans 5:3-5 And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope. Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.

Romans 8:18 For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.

Philippians 4:12-13 I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

I John 2:6: Whoever says he abides in Him ought himself to walk in the same manner as He walked.

2 Corinthians 4:8-9 We are hard-pressed on every side, yet not crushed; we are perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed

Psalms 23:4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death ,I will fear no evil; For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.

Psalms 34:17-18 The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears, And delivers them out of all their troubles.The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, And saves such as have a contrite spirit

2 Corinthians 10:3-5 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ.

Psalms 34:19 Many are the afflictions of the righteous, But the Lord delivers him out of them all.

Ignoring The Other Fruit

Tracy Frederick 

He really thought that he’d gotten away with it; he thought that he had covered his tracks well. No one said anything, but everyone new, but everyone also knew that he was God’s chosen. Who was going to say anything and risk being unemployed, perhaps put in prison, or worse? Besides, if anyone was above God’s law, it would be David, right? It is easy to list off David’s righteous accomplishments: He killed Goliath when no one else would attempt it; he didn’t kill Saul- God’s anointed, even though he had a right; he brought the ark back to Israel. I mean, it doesn’t get much better than David, right? I think it is interesting that God includes David’s sin in His book. David seemed so perfect, but then no one is…perfect, right? I cringe when I read Nathan’s words to David: you have “despised the commandments of the Lord to do evil in His sight” (2 Samuel 11). David despise the Lord? Really? Wow…..But didn’t he love the Lord? Didn’t God know that David was a good guy? I mean, “despised” is a pretty strong word. But, that’s the word that the Lord gave Nathan to say to David: despise. I can’t imagine the hurt that David felt. But, what follows is so amazing. David didn’t get angry at Nathan and he didn’t deny it. He didn’t argue with Nathan, or defend his actions. He didn’t try to excuse it away like Adam tried to excuse his sin in the garden, or Abraham’s lie about Sarah….nope, he owned it…He said: ”I have sinned against the Lord.” He owned it with NO excuses….He did it and he knew it…and in doing it and denying the sin, He despised the Lord. That’s what drove him to his knees; it drove him to the floor to pray for forgiveness and then he willingly accepted the consequences- the death of his child.

I wonder how often we our conscience is so sorely troubled over our offense that we have been too soul-sick to eat or sleep, or willingly accepted what we deserve, as David did. I fear that we have lost our ability to feel sorry…REALLY sorry, that godly sorrow that David felt (For godly sorrow works repentance to salvation not to be regretted: but the sorrow of the world works death. 2 Cor 7:10). I worry that we have convinced ourselves, perhaps like David, that we are such a good person that it will all “even out in the end.” Or perhaps we are in denial too? Perhaps we have convinced ourselves that our Father doesn’t really see?…doesn’t know?….won’t mind?….or will ignore it?…for us, since we love Him so much, right? If He love us so much, why wouldn’t He just overlook it? I mean, it’s embarrassing right? Repentance always is. It means that we put away our egos and admit that we are wrong….yep wrong…wrong…wrong… But, that’s what led us to the Lord in the first place, right? Realizing that we were wrong…DEAD wrong and knew the consequences that awaited us for despising the Lord. It is hard, I get it, repentance means that I have to make the sin right: I may have go to someone and apologize for being a liar, I may have to apologize for cheating, change my clothes or even change my friends….It means that I may be lonely for a very, very, very long time…But, you know the list of the works of the flesh in Gal 5 or the long list of sins in Rom 1. But, even if we don’t know that list by heart, we know…don’t we? Yeah, we know….we know what is right and what is wrong…. we know but I am not so sure that we realize that He knows too…He sees and He knows.… and the really important, or the scary and tough part is-- if He wasn’t willing to ignore David’s sins, He isn’t going to just ignore mine either is He? 

“Therefore bear fruits worthy of repentance.” Matthew 3:8

All of Them???? Really? ALL of them???

~Tracy Frederick


They had waited a long time, over 40 years. It was hot, sandy and wearisome. They had watched their loved ones die along the journey and they were finally at their destination. I can only imagine the relief they felt when were told that they had finally arrived. But there was still one more catch...just one. In exchange for being taken out of slavery, suffering for generations, and given a the most beautiful place imaginable (Gen. 26: 2-5; 28: 13-15; Ex 3), there was just one catch: drive out and/or destroy all of the inhabitants (Num 33: 50-56; Deut 7: 1-3). I can imagine their reaction: What??? Seriously??? Do you really mean ALL??? Really??? Shouldn’t we be polite and let some of them stay??? God, you CAN’T mean ALL!


Now, this isn’t about the Israelites disobeying God, but this is about us; they made their choice, didn’t they? I think sometimes that it is easy to “destroy” some things. You know what I mean, right? Those sins that didn’t give up much of a fight (or really weren’t really a temptation). But, what about the things that we have let hang out...those tough ones.... like the Israelites did (Judges 1-3)...you know what I mean, those sins we don't want to give up because we will look “weird” to our friends if we didn’t do them? Make our family uncomfortable if we practice them? Cause us to miss our favorite fun activity? Look less "fashionable"? All of those things? So, perhaps maybe we are like the Israelites and hope that it isn’t such a big thing, really....I mean, maybe God would overlook it, right? …I mean, did He really mean ALL??? Ask the Israelites: “…you drive them out, and destroy them quickly, as the Lord has said to you” (Deut 9: 3). Yep, it is pretty clear, it ALL had to go.

I have always considered God’s command to “utterly destroy” or “drive out” nations of people as a bit harsh. That was a lot of bloodshed. So why all? The Israelites learned why pretty quickly when they did not destroy ALL...they became slaves again. But it is easy to blame the Israelites. They were rebellious. So, what about us? Does He expect us to destroy ALL??? Isn’t it asking too much to give up ALL? Not so much, nope, not really, especially when we consider He gave ALL first…ALL of it (Phil 2: 5-8; John 3:16). Do we really think giving up ALL it was easier for Him? Try reading Luke 22. So, why would we not be willing to destroy ALL for Him?

Women—As God Would Have Us (part 2)

~ Veronica Brown

 In this follow up article let’s continue our focus on three remaining groups of women from the book of Genesis.  Following the daughters-in-law of Noah and their example of being willing to be counted among the few we turn our minds to Sarah. Sarah is recorded by the Hebrews writer as one who judged God faithful in regard to His promises (Heb. 11:11). She trusted that God would fulfill what He had spoken to her with regard to a homeland and a heritage. Did she obey perfectly what God expected of her? No. She became impatient. She laughed. She faced doubt, discouragement, and difficulties. Yet she trusted. She waited. She complied. So, in like manner, God judged her faithful and He counted her among those great heroes of faith in Hebrews 11. What hope, encouragement, and strength we can gain from her very real example of faith in God and His promises.

Next, let’s look at Hagar the bondwoman. On the surface we tend to read about Hagar in light of Sarah’s attempt to facilitate God’s plan and the undesired results that followed. While we learn that any attempt to commandeer God’s will is futile, God reveals the true spiritual meaning of the bondwoman vs. the free woman. In Galatians 4 we learn that these two women and their two sons are symbolic (v. 24). They represent the two covenants (v. 25). The Old is represented by Hagar and Ishmael. The New is represented by Sarah and Isaac. Under the Old there is bondage—the bondwoman’s son was born according to the flesh and was therefore subject to the same bondage as his mother. But under the New there is freedom because the freewoman’s son was born according to promise (v. 23). “Now we, brethren, as Isaac was, are children of promise” (Gal. 4:28). True freedom from the bondage of sin can only be found in the New Covenant system and in the promised Son. Therefore, Paul exhorts us to “stand fast in the liberty by which Christ has made us free” (Gal. 5:1). To return or adhere to Old Testament tenants is to return to bondage.  May we ever be mindful of the price that was paid for our true spiritual freedom.

 Finally, let’s notice the women in Lot’s life—his wife and their two daughters. While a casual read of their accounts in Genesis may raise more questions than answers it remains that what we can glean from their record is clear—sin always reaps adverse consequences. Living in such sinful cities as Sodom and Gomorrah undoubtedly left its fateful impression on Lot’s family. It clouded their minds and their eyes. Lot’s wife apparently couldn’t completely turn her back to such wickedness and she paid the ultimate price. Their daughters, likewise, followed suit with misguided judgment and sacrificed their purity. May we ever remember that sin always reaps gross by-products and is never an island unto itself.

From the dawn of creation to this present hour womankind has been and continues to be a most vital component to either the good or ill of humanity. Of course, God desires us to use our influence for good. Just as He expected from Eve, He expects the same from us. May we aspire to use our efforts and energies for good—to love our husbands, care for our children, and do good to all, especially those of the household of faith.  May God help us to be women, as HE would have us, and in so doing, not grow weary (Gal. 6:9)!

Is Milk and Honey Enough?

~Tracy Frederick

I cannot imagine the emotions the Israelites must have felt when Moses told them God had listened, God had remembered His promise and God was going to provide. Did they think God was cruel? Did they blame God for the life they were living as slaves? I mean, weren’t they God’s chosen people? Wasn’t God supposed to take care of them? But, had He forgotten them? I mean, they were slaves! Each day was another day of beatings, scrounging and begging for food, working in oppressive heat with little water. So, when Moses told them of God’s plan to save them, to lead them to “deliver them out of the hand of the Egyptians, and to being them up to that land unto a good and large land, unto a land flowing with milk and honey” (Ex 3:8). I can’t imagine the feeling, the gratefulness to their God. Exodus 4:31 says they believed that the Lord had heard their affliction and visited His people and they bowed their head and worshipped.

But, it wasn’t long, as you know, before they began to doubt….was it really as good as God promised? Is it really worth it? And, the idea of the land flowing with milk and honey faded. The weariness of the journey and the immediate desires of their lives distracted them from the promise. And, so, some never made it, after all of the walking in the desert, after all of the many days of marching and living in tents and struggling through the dessert, they just lost their belief in the promise. For many,  a large, bountiful land flowing with milk and honey just wasn’t enough….they just couldn’t wait that long…

Some people are too much like the Israelites wondering around on this earth, circle again and again, having lost their way, growing weary of the journey and forgetting the promise: “In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you.  And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also. And whither I go ye know, and the way ye know. (John 14:2-4). 
They walk is long, and the trials are tough and hot…and tiring…and difficult and just…well, HARD….but He promised…He never forgets ….for those who are His (Acts 2:38)...and  keep walking,…and hoping…. and believing (Rev 2:10) that the land of milk and honey IS enough…more than enough...

A Reminder...even in the Most Unlikely of Places

~Veronica Brown

Recently during an evening of family bible time we were discussing various ways one could increase in their desire for greater holiness. Many wonderful ideas were put forth, but one particular idea was discussed at length and then given as a challenge by the husband to each family member. It went something like this:

Day in and day out we see a million things with our physical eyes. Some things get casual glances while others demand long stares. What about using those everyday things and framing them with a spiritual or biblical application in order to help us be more spiritually minded? For example, we have an artificial tree adorned with white lights in our den. We see that tree everyday. But had anyone ever thought of coupling a spiritual connection with it? Not really. But once we stopped and thought about it it didn't take long to conceive of something biblical about it—the tree in the garden of Eden, the tree that held our Savior, the tree that awaits us in heaven. Easy. 

 So the leader of our home picked an object for each of us and challenged us to apply something biblical to said object. Guess what he picked for me? Our dog. What?! Those who know me know that while I do think Johnson is a good dog and that I even think he is pretty cute, sometimes I just kinda don't like him. He sheds....a lot. And, yes, sometimes he even gets sick, in our house, on the floor, and it's gross. Yeah. But the challenge was made. So to my trusty Bible app I went since nothing appropriate seemed to come to mind.

 There are several passages in Scripture that mention dogs. God told Elijah to tell King Ahab that dogs were going to not only lick up his blood but they were also going to eat the body of Queen Jezebel, along with whoever else belonged to King Ahab (I Kings 21). Dogs licked the sores of Lazarus in Luke 16. Dogs are even likened to the assembly of the wicked in the Messianic prophecies of Psalm 22. 

 But none of these sufficed until I scrolled across Proverbs 26:11, "As a dog returns to his own vomit, so a fool repeats his folly." Perfect! Especially since I've actually seen this happen. Yuck! So I shared this little gem with my family and very quickly our youngest asked, "But Mom, what's this verse mean for your life?" Good question son. I proceeded to explain that it means for me what it meant for Peter when he quoted it in II Peter 2:22. In regards to the false teachers who escaped the pollution of this world only to become entangled and overcome by it once again (verse 21), Peter says that it would have been better for them not to have ever known the way of righteousness because now they are like dogs returning to their vomit and like washed pigs wallowing once again in the mire.

 Therefore, "beware lest you also fall from your own steadfastness, being led away with the error of the wicked" (I Peter 3:17). That's what it means for my life. If I allow myself to get led away by false doctrine and fall, I am like a dog who returns to its vomit. Yuck!

 So thank you Johnson. Though you oftentimes annoy me with your never ending supply of white dog hair and your occasional "gifts" left on our floor, you have helped impress a significant spiritual truth to our family: to return again to the pollution of this world is to be likened to your kind. And even though we think you're pretty cute and very smart, I prayerfully desire that no one in my family (physical and spiritual) will ever be like you, but that we would instead "grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ" (I Peter 3:18). 

Our Buckler

~ Nancy Goring

In Pproverbs 2 verses 1-9 the writer gives us a discourse on the way that our God has given us words and commandments, that we might have knowledge and understanding. We are encouraged to cry for wisdom and lift up our voices for understanding of His ways for us. Verses 7 and 8 are particularly comforting to me. "He layeth up sound wisdom for the righteous: he is a buckler to them that walk up rightly. He keepeth the paths of judgment, and preserveth the way of his saints."

God has provided this wisdom for those who would follow after His will. What a blessing we have in His holy Word! The word "buckler," is interesting. It portrays our heavenly Father as a Shield, a Protecter. That same Hebrew word is used to describe the hard scales that we find upon a crocodile. Those scales are very hard to penetrate. I am so thankful that our Creator watches over His children with such tender love and care.

In verse 8 we are told that He will keep His paths of judgment. Our God is constant! He has spoken and it stands, nothing can take down what He has established by the words of His mouth. When we are told that He preserves the way of His saints, we should be filled with peace, joy and gratitude. No matter what happens to us in this life, our God is in control. He will never leave or forsake His faithful ones. Some may leave Him. In John 6:66-68 we see where many disciples left our Lord Jesus. Jesus asks the twelve if they, too, will walk away. Peter replied appropriately "To whom shall we go?" That is a very important question that each of us must ask ourself. To whom will we go? Will we go to the Father where all blessings are found, or the world, where only heartache and spiritual death resides?


Nancy is the wife of Bill Goring, who serves as a gospel preacher and elder for the Chipman Road church of Christ in Lee’s Summit, Missouri. She has 4 children, 11 grandchildren and has taught Bible class for over 40 years, speaks at Ladies Day gatherings and has published several books including: Behavior Becoming Holiness: Studies in Titus Chapter 2 and Overcoming our Self-Imposed Prisons.
 

What It Really Means to Love Yourself

~Erin Blair

The Commandment:
In Matthew 22:36 the question is given to Christ: “Which is the greatest commandment in the law?” And, of course, as we all know, our Lord’s response was to “love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.” And while there is a potential for several books to be written on the subject of the first and greatest commandment, we often spend less time considering the meaning of the second greatest. In Matthew 22:39 Christ gives us the second greatest of all the commandments “Love thy neighbor as thyself.”

Not many in our polite society will argue with the fact that we need to show love to our neighbors. We are oftentimes very adamantly supportive (especially financially) of those who are suffering in some way (much like the parable of the good Samaritan in Luke 10:30-35). Usually when preaching on being generous, kindhearted, compassionate and loving to our neighbors, there is not a shortage of Amen’s from the well intentioned individuals in the assembly. But, what is fascinating to me is how we have often overlooked the last phrase of that second commandment “as thyself”. And it seems to me that often times when we do note those last two words, it’s with the assumption that we all do fit that requirement of loving ourselves. Logic, in and of itself will tell us that in order to love our neighbor as we love ourselves, we must first love ourselves, for if we were to loathe ourselves and then treat our neighbors in the same manner, it would certainly not result in God’s delight. Sadly, because we live in a world full of self destruction through various practices and behaviors (both active and passive!), it is fitting and proper that we should learn what it truly means to love ourselves.

The Confusion:

Jesus said in John 13:35 that the world would recognize us by our true love for one another. The problem with so many in our modern day and age is that we are truly confused with what true love actually is. But why is there so much confusion? Are we as human beings becoming increasingly stupid? I think not. Perhaps for some the cause is true ignorance. They have not been properly taught (whether by example or by instruction) what true love is. We as Christians understand the concept of agape (or agapeo) love. We realize that to love someone means to do what is best for them. To give them what they really need and not just what they want. We understand this because we’ve seen this love exemplified to perfection through Christ (John 15:13). People are not ignorant of this love because its meaning cannot be seen, or because the correct answers are nowhere to be found. The reason why people are ignorant over true love’s meaning is the same reason why people are ignorant of any and all commands the Lord has given. Folks are too busy listening to the voices of their own desires rather than the voice of God. It is the age old problem of destruction via distraction. It is the age old problem of listening to the words emanating from our culture and from Satan “What you want is more important than what you need.” The message we hear from the world is that “love” is related to desire. In the world’s perspective, “love” is almost always linked to emotions, primarily what gives one the emotion of pleasure or “happiness”. This is one reason why so many in failing marriages believe that they are no longer “in love” because the element of infatuation and “happiness” has been absent for some time.  This is not to say that the Christian who seeks a Godly “love” is not a happy individual, but rather that they are not driven by something as fleeting as emotion, but instead by something much more substantial; the fulfillment of genuine needs. The difference between the two definitions can be easily seen in the way someone behaves during a relationship. The parent, spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend who defines love from a distorted and worldly view will give their loved one what they want because it will please them and make them “happy”. The one who uses God to measure what love is will give their loved one what they need because it is best for them, and because it will result in their loved one’s fulfillment. We do need to note, however, that in some happy and blessed instances, what someone needs happens to be exactly what they want. The problem arises when the two differ, and a choice between the two must be made. And sadly, it’s far easier to determine what someone wants rather than what they need.

The world says that to indulge your own desires is to love yourself. God says to love yourself, you must give yourself what you truly need, even if what you need is the very absence of what you want (Matt. 16:24-26).

Erin resides in Ben Wheeler Tx with her husband who preaches for the Ben Wheeler congregation. Erin has been involved with preparing and organizing the work of the church since she was a teenager by teaching all ages of Bibles classes, helping prepare and organize Ladies Days, Prom Alternatives, Youth Rallies and VBS.  She is currently works as a paralegal for a law firm. She and her husband also spend their time enjoying their sweet dog, chickens, ducks, quail…etc.  Life is never dull at her house.

 

The Shadow....

All those great heroes of Faith's Hall of Fame that we read about in Hebrews 11 are so encouraging to us today. They were so faithful, yet when I read verse 13, I want to hang my head in shame! "These all died in faith, not having received the promises, but having seen them afar off, and we're persuaded of them, and confessed that they were strangers and pilgrims on the earth...."

Those of old ...were only able to see a shadow of the things to come. We, on the other hand, have His Holy Word and can look backward, with full sight, seeing that which has already come to pass. And yet...many today still do not believe. I am so thankful for those who had such great faith - those who were willing to sacrifice their very lives, trusting in the promises of God. It encourages me to press on toward the goal of heaven, knowing there is an eternal home in Heaven for the faithful. We have it very easy today, compared to the struggles of our brethren of old. Our prayer should be like that of Jesus' apostles: "Increase our faith, Lord," (Luke 17:5).

Spiders and Worms

The other day as my husband and I were planting in our (very large) garden trying to get some plants in the ground before it started raining.  As I was putting some pepper plants in the ground, I noticed I had to keep flicking away some small spiders that kept crawling in the dirt near me.  They were small spiders, so I didn’t creep out too much but still didn’t like the idea of them being that close to me.  As the weather is getting warmer, I notice more and more bugs coming out of “hiding” and searching for food, or looking for new ways to annoy me, either way.

 As I see these creepy-crawly’s in my garden, I think about how in our lives we have “spiders and worms.”  Events and things in life do not always seem pretty or nice, but, sometimes unknown to us, have qualities that will benefit us later in life.  I’m often reminded of Romans 8:28, “For we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose.” 

 Just like those little spiders and worms in my garden, events that seem bad can have a good purpose that we may not see yet.  Those hard times we all fall on help prepare us and strengthen us so that we can grow from it and see that we are capable to doing great things as long as we have a lasting faith in God and keep our eye on the goal of Heaven (Philippians 3:14).

 ~Erin Blair

The Walk Of Life

~Nancy Goring

   While walking the track at the community center today, I started noticing the various "walkers/runners." They were all different in age, gender, weight and health. One couple, in particular really impressed me. They were a couple about 80 years old and moving very slowly. The lady had looped her arm through her husbands to help support him, as he was having difficulty even ta...king small steps. It was so sweet to see how she supported him so carefully, never trying to make him move faster, always being patient with him.

     I also saw young people running as fast as they could, others jogging at a regular pace and some fast walkers at various speeds. Like most tracks, there are 3 lanes; the inside is for slower folks, the middle for fast, and the outside lane for runners. I couldn't help but think how much our Christian lives paralleled the scenes unfolding before me. 

     There were little ones who ran fast, then walked, then skipped around, not really sure what they should be doing, but having fun anyway. They weren't aware of the "rules" yet, but they watched and picked up very quickly. I thought about those who began their Christians walk - eager, excited, unsure, happy, learning to follow the lead of those who were older and more experienced. Then there were the ones who had been doing this for many years. They were steady, consistent, always watching before they changed lanes so they wouldn't interfere with other walkers - courteous, well-balanced, well-paced, experienced. Most of the older people were in the slower lane, some doing better than others because they were just trying to stay healthy by walking consistently.
Then there were the ones who walked 3 abreast, talking, having fun, paying no attention whether someone was approaching from behind that might run into them or that they may cause to get off course or lose balance. Their strides were slow then fast - they wandered all over the track, oblivious to their surroundings. On a rare occasion there would be one who was irritated with the talkers and would be rude to them, almost pushing them out of the way because they were a nuisance to their workout. There is no need for me to make a spiritual comparison here - I will let you do that.

     The walk at the track is so much like our walk in life as a Christian. I was so impressed with the older folks who kept on keeping on, though it was at a much slower pace. That encouraged me to keep exercising even when I feel tired, ache, and want to stop, even for just a little bit.
My doctor told me I needed to walk for my health, so I set goals, at his instruction, to keep me on task. Our heavenly Father has also told us what we need to do to stay spiritually strong. He also provided the goal! Are we following His instructions? Are we studying daily for our spiritual strength? Are we serving as we should? Are we assisting others on the pathway if they need us to loop our arm through theirs to help them/support them when they are weak? Are we being a consistent example of Christ-like behavior in our daily walk? Hopefully we are not wandering around, oblivious to all that is about us that might harm us spiritually, or perhaps another!
We have a goal that was given to us. It is heaven. The apostle Paul said, "I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus," (Philippians 3:14). Let us "run with patience, that race that is set before us," as the Hebrew writer said in Hebrews 12:1. Let's all strive for strength, patience, consistency, and balance as we walk His walk, always keeping the end goal in sight.

 

Nancy is the wife of Bill Goring, who serves as a gospel preacher and elder for the Chipman Road church of Christ in Lee’s Summit, Missouri. She has 4 children, 11 grandchildren and has taught Bible class for over 40 years, speaks at Ladies Day gatherings and has published several books including: Behavior Becoming Holiness: Studies in Titus Chapter 2 and Overcoming our Self-Imposed Prisons.

 

All Things

~Tracy Frederick

It is probably the most well-known scripture, along with John 3:16. We see it on the backs of football uniforms, posted on Facebook, splattered on bumper stickers and even etched into under eye make-up, or shoe polish…or whatever that stuff is that football players put under their eyes. I have even heard it used in conjunction with losing weight. I imagine that if we asked people, even atheists to tell us a scripture they know, this would be in the top five or three. It is popular, but the way I see it used I wonder if the person understands the struggle and personal sacrifice this verse speaks of to gain the strength needed to endure “all things.” So, …quote it with me…you know it: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” It is that “all things” part that is the sticky one. All things, huh? Well, we’ll see….

It is in this first chapter that sets the tone and the purpose for that popular one verse everyone is wearing:

v. 27-30: “Only let your conduct be worthy of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or am absent, I may hear of your affairs, that you stand fast in one spirit, with one mind striving together for the faith of the gospel, and not in any way terrified by your adversaries, which is to them a proof of perdition, but to you of salvation, and that from God.  For to you it has been granted on behalf of Christ, not only to believe in Him, but also to suffer for His sake, having the same conflict which you saw in me and now hear is in me.”

Philippians, especially as of late, has become my go-to book. It instructs me to love no matter what; to endure no matter what; and to not let my own petty problems make me forget that my Savior gave up “all things” in heaven for us (Phil 2:7-8: “made Himself of no reputation, taking the form of a bondservant, and coming in the likeness of men. And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even death on the cross”).  Philippians is a hard book, it is about standing strong in the midst of suffering and hardships for Christ- those “things.” Paul promises that true believers (obedient in all things- Acts 2:38, Rom 6:4, I Pet. 3:21, Col 2:12, Rom 4:20, Rev 2:10), in Philippi (or anywhere/anytime) will never have a ticker tape parade for the cause of Christ, will never be given accolades on the football field for the goals of the gospel, and household chores, sparkling white whites are of no concern in bringing glory to God. That’s not “all things.” Christ revealed to Paul “all things” that he would suffer (see Acts 9).

So, once again the question is a tough one:  what “things” do we “do” that need “strengthening” (or “enable/make strong”)? Football/sports “things?” Tough laundry stain “things?” Sounds ludicrous when we put it that way, doesn’t it? So…what is it? What I love about the Bible is the way it answers questions about itself. Did you notice the opening of the book, in the first chapter? “let your conduct be worthy of the gospel of Christ…steadfast in the spirit…striving for the faith of the gospel….not terrified by your adversaries…suffer for His sake….” Yeah, “allll of those “things.” That is what Christ will strengthen us for, “all of the things” that are worthy of suffering.” After all, if we aren’t suffering for the sake of our Lord, how can I call myself worthy of “all of the things” He sacrificed and suffered for me? I admit that I hope we need strengthening in “all things”…don’t you? It means we are suffering to be worthy in “all things.”

An Opportunity

Tracy Frederick

Some days can just be a little harder than others, can’t they? Some days it just takes more effort that others doesn’t it? Some days it feels as if it just doesn’t matter, doesn’t it? Perhaps it is because we are physically weary from the day to day grind of this world, or perhaps it is because the burdens seem just a little heavier at times and our spiritual examples are…well…turn out to be not so spiritual after all? There are a host of reasons why some days it is tempting to just sit and hide from the world; to hunker down and neglect the work that has been set before us.  Then that little verse nags, it itches doesn’t it? And won’t let go, no matter how hard we try to distract ourselves or ignore it. It is there….you know the one I mean: “And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.  Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all, especially to those who are of the household of faith”( Gal 6:9-10). The out is “opportunity” right? There are so many excuses for not having opportunity, right? But…..I bet Christ had other things He could have been doing rather than die for me.  I mean, He was busy…: ^“…7but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man,he humbled himself and became obedient to death--even death on a cross” (Phil 2:6-8). I bet He was pretty weary after being beaten all night, “A certain man from Cyrene, Simon, the father of Alexander and Rufus, was passing by on his way in from the country, and they forced him to carry the cross” (Mk 15:21) …..I know that Christ was lonely: “He took Peter and Zebedee's two sons with him. Jesus began to be sad and troubled. He said to them, `My heart is very sad. I am almost dying! Stay here and watch with me.'”( Matt 26:37-38). “Then all the disciples left Jesus and ran away” (Mat 26:54b). I am confident that it was difficult for our Creator (Col 1:16) to take that opportunity: “Jesus went on a little further. He bowed down with his face to the ground. He talked to God and said, `My Father, if it can be, let this cup of trouble pass by me. But do not do what I want. May what you want be done.'” (Matt 26: 39).  What if He had was too weary? What if He was too discouraged? What if He had not taken the opportunity?

“Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.” ! Corinthians 15:58

Keeping my Eyes Up

Tracy Frederick

I admit it, I am a klutz, everyone knows it and honestly, it is a tradition to joke about my inability to walk through a door without hitting the doorframe, or some such object. That means I am a “heads down” walker. I am always on the lookout, though it does me little good, of some kind of pitfall that will have me grasping for something to catch my fall, or something that I am about to knock over. I am that kind of driver too- I get distracted by the details and there have become the “Queen of the turnaround”. I reminded much lately (actually reminding myself...I do that- talk to myself) that each step is one more on the path; one more on this journey toward something else more important.  So, I have been considering my spiritual walk. I do find myself always considering the pitfalls, and while that is good, I find that it keeps my eyes away from the goal, my destination.  I admit that while looking for the littlest things that would trip me up, I have missed my opportunities for smiling at someone, giving an encouraging comment.  So, as I am considering my walk and the path, and perhaps you are the same, I realize those pitfall distractions that  could cause me to break a “spiritual leg,” can also keep me from considering those who are walking around me, beside me and never forgetting to keep my eyes searching the skies for the return of my Savior. “But now they desire a better, that is, a heavenly country. Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God, for He has prepared a city for them.” Hebrews 11:16.

. I also admit that my kutziness embarasses me. I get tired of the teasing, even though it is true and meant in good fun. However, I hope my spritual walk isn't so kutzy. I hope when my Lord watches me take each step he is not ashamed, but sees me looking Him in the eye with each step because I know if that is my focus and my goal (Matthew 7:21), that city is just waiting without bumps and dips and such things. It will be smooth and straight.

Fear vs. Focus

~ Nancy Goring

     The other day, while watching the local news, the reporter was interviewing an Australian man who was a base jumper. For those who do not know what this “sport” is, they are the brave souls who parachute off of shorter heights, such as cliffs etc., instead of going up in an airplane. There is a limited amount of time for that parachute to open, so the shorter the distance up, the more likely the chute may not have time to open fully enough to break their fall. This man was scheduled to jump from the Liberty Memorial in K.C. MO. The reporter asked him if he was afraid. He replied that he absolutely WAS afraid and appeared to be so from his demeanor. Then she asked how he was able to control himself when he was up there looking down, knowing the time element involved. He simply said, “I am fearful every step of the way, until I am ready to jump and then I must focus. When I am focusing on what is happening at that very moment, my thoughts are concentrated on only what I am about to do. Fear is gone and Focus replaces the fear.”

     I couldn’t help but think how our spiritual lives are much the same. We must have complete focus when we are attempting to teach the Word of God to those who need it. There is no room for fear that they may not like us, or fear that they might get angry. Instead, we need to focus on what is the most important issue here – their eternal soul. Whether we are dealing with someone who has never been taught, or with someone who has gone astray, we are often fearful, and we should have a healthy fear; one of respect for the power and authority of God’s Word. That should never be taken lightly. The loss of one’s soul is of greater consequence than if we were in danger of losing our physical life, for the soul will live eternally somewhere – either with God in heaven or with the devil and his angels in eternal damnation. Yes, “It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God,” (Hebrews 10:31). Thus, we need that focus to be able to help bring others to Christ.

     We need to be focused in our own spiritual lives. There is no place for the fearful and unbelieving in the kingdom of God. As a matter of fact, John tells us in Revelation 21:8 that there is a place prepared for the fearful – the lake of fire which has been prepared for the devil! The preceding verse tells us that those who overcome will inherit eternal live and live with God. Where do you want to spend your eternity? If you want a home in heaven with God to live in eternal bliss with Him, there is no room for fear in your life; no room for fear of rejection when you must speak the truth, no room for fear of taking the gospel to the lost, no room for fear of lovingly letting a brother or sister know if they are in error, no room to be fearful to serve Him daily and let your light shine in a lost and dying world, whether it be in the workplace, school, the community or wherever your steps may lead you.

 John tells us in 1 John 4:18, “ There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.” Do you love God; completely love Him? That is what the apostle is saying. When our love is perfect (complete; mature), we will not be fearful because we are focused, totally focused on Him. This will take much study, a great deal of prayer and a humble heart, but it can be done. Verse 17 of that same chapter tells us that we can have boldness in the Day of Judgment, if we spend our lives personifying the love of God to others. That’s what I want to do. And I know that is what you want for yourself as well! So let’s get focused, ladies, and make sure that we do not have a timid and fearful spirit that will keep us from spending an eternity with heavenly Father. My prayer is that I would be able to be with my Father, my Savior and the Holy Spirit, with all those faithful brethren who have gone on to their reward, and to be with each and everyone of you dear sisters. I just need to FOCUS.

 Nancy is the wife of Bill Goring, who serves as a gospel preacher and elder for the Chipman Road church of Christ in Lee’s Summit, Missouri. She has 4 children, 11 grandchildren and has taught Bible class for over 40 years, speaks at Ladies Day gatherings and has published several books including: Behavior Becoming Holiness: Studies in Titus Chapter 2 and Overcoming our Self-Imposed Prisons

YOLO

~Erin Blair

For those of you who have Facebook accounts or have much knowledge of the internet, you may have seen a phrase that has floated around that a lot of young people are using.  That phrase is “YOLO.”  Many of you read that and may have though, “What does ‘YOLO’ mean?” and quickly rush to the Webster’s Dictionary to look it up only to see that it is not in there.  “YOLO” is the acronym for “You Only Live Once.”  It is often used whenever someone does something not very bright, such as run a stop sign or speed down the highway.  They also often say it when they do something very unwise such as drink and drive, have premarital sex, or experiment with drugs.  They use the excuse of “YOLO” as a reason to do whatever they want.  But is this an accurate way of thinking?

We find in Hebrews 9:27, “And as it is appointed unto men once to die,…” so you can say that yes, it is true that you only live once (“YOLO”).  But does that give us an excuse to do whatever we want?   The verse I just mentioned continues to say, “…but after this the judgment.”  Oftentimes, when someone uses the excuse of “YOLO”, they aren’t thinking of the consequences of their actions.  They aren’t thinking of the earthly consequences such as death, unwanted pregnancies, diseases, etc., and are most certainly not thinking about the eternal consequences of their actions.  A lot of the time they think, “Oh I’ll do such-and-such now, and ask forgiveness later.”  This is not the attitude a Christian should have (1 Cor. 6:12; Gal. 6:3).

Oftentimes when someone has the attitude of “YOLO”, they are only thinking of themselves; they are “in the moment” if you will.  They are thinking of the excitement of breaking the rules and running the risk of getting caught.  For many the thrill of danger lures them in and captivates them.  I mean, how many of us have seen that red button with the sign above it saying, “Don’t push this button!” and have not been tempted to push it?  Many get caught up in the excitement and adrenaline rush and throw “caution to the wind.”  But is this the attitude that Christ would have us wear?  Certainly not! 

When someone has the attitude of “YOLO,” they are usually only thinking of themselves.  They are usually not thinking of how their actions will affect others around them or people in the future.   Again, this is a destructive attitude for one to have (Matt. 19:30).  When someone does something with such reckless abandon, they typically are just thinking of making a name of themselves or advancing their personal status.  As Christ said in Matthew 19:30, “But many that are first shall be last; and the last shall be first.” 

Like I said earlier, so many of our young people today use “YOLO” as an excuse to do whatever they want.  But is it really worth it?  Is it really worth it to sin and risk other souls because after all, “You Only Live Once.”

Erin is the wife of Jordan Blair and lives near Tyler, Texas. Erin teaches Bible class, helps with Ladies Days, has helped to coordinate teen activities and young women's activities.

Belongin

~Nancy Goring

   I hear many people say that they just don’t feel like they “belong.”  This is not a new concept. Generations before us have expressed the same sentiment. Belonging is something that is intrinsic within every human being and is needful. Whether it is with family members, friends, or a church family – everyone needs to feel wanted; that they belong.

     As Christians we have assurance that we “belong.” We belong to the greatest institution ever established, the church of our Lord and Savior, which was in the mind of God before He ever formed the world (Matthew 25:34). And we belong to the Father in heaven. Consider the following passages from David:

   “ But know that the Lord hath set apart him that is godly for himself: the Lord  will hear when I call unto him. Stand in awe, and sin not: commune with your own heart upon your bed, and be still. Selah. Offer the sacrifices of righteousness, and put your trust in the Lord” (Psalm 4:3-5). KJV

     We can know that we have been set apart, or sanctified by God when we obey the gospel and walk in His steps (1 John 3:19; 24). What a comforting thought to not only know (no doubts!) we have been set apart, but that He desires this personal relationship with every one of His children. We were made for Him and we belong to Him. That’s right, Christians belong, not only here on earth in His Holy church, but also to God personally, for eternity.

     David further states that we have a privilege only Christians can have – that of communicating with Him in prayer (John (9:31; 1 Peter 3:12). He hears us and He wants us to talk with Him, to tell Him how much we love Him, to lay our burdens and sins upon His ear, asking Him for forgiveness, that we will not have to bear so heavy a load in this life. We receive strength from Him as we communicate in prayer, and study His Word.

     When we are righteous, when we trust in Him, when we stand in awe of His majesty and spend quiet time alone with Him in prayer, He will comfort us. As we meditate upon His Holy Word, we find the much-needed strength to take us through each and every day in a world that is sick with sin. He gives us the stamina to go forward and fight the good fight. When we feel like we cannot find anyone else to hear us, we know that our God is there every moment of every day to listen. He is our Rock (Deuteronomy 32:31; 37).

     We belong to the Father; we are His children. There is no greater “belonging.” We can belong to many things - clubs, groups, and other secular gatherings, but nothing on this earth will ever give us the fulfillment that we have when we belong to God and know that He is waiting in heaven and has prepared a place of rest for us. I pray that all of my sisters realize that they are loved, wanted, and treasured by the God of Creation.

Nancy is the wife of Bill Goring, who serves as a gospel preacher and elder for the Chipman Road church of Christ in Lee’s Summit, Missouri. She has 4 children, 11 grandchildren and has taught Bible class for over 40 years, speaks at Ladies Day gatherings and has published several books including: Behavior Becoming Holiness: Studies in Titus Chapter 2 and Overcoming our Self-Imposed Prisons.

The Weapon- The Sword

~Nancy Goring

 

Much discussion has been given recently to gun control. It's been on Facebook, the news, the papers and individuals have been wrangling back and forth over this very controversial topic. I am not going to discuss guns, but there is a weapon that I am very concerned about! That weapon would be the Sword. I truly wish that we could become as zealous of the Sword and "up in arms" over this issue. I...n Ephesians 6:17 the Lord tells us that the Sword is the Word of God. Hebrews 4:12 describes the Word of God as "sharper than a two-edged sword; able to discern." This is the greatest weapon that we have in this world. No gun, no physical weapon will ever be as powerful as the Sword of the Lord! When we understand this, we will be on our way to changing this world. Jesus stated in Matthew 26:52, "They that take the sword, shall perish with the sword." Taking a bit of liberty, here, I would like to shift the context for a moment. If we take the Sword of the Lord, the Bible, and we live by it, we shall also die with it, and by it. We will die according to its precepts and promises. That is what I think we all want - to know that with our dying breath, that we have lived for God and will die a faithful Christian as He delivers our soul to Paradise. This is the "right" of every Faithful Christian, and NO ONE can or will take away our right to go to heaven, but us. I want to think about those things that pure, and lovely and godly (Philippians 4:8) and stay focused on my vocation- to save the lost souls of mankind. So today, like every other day, I will pick up my Sword and go forth. I pray that every citizen of the kingdom of God will do the same. I love you all, but we are in a battle against the Price of evil and need all soldiers of Christ to rise to the occasion and focus on the true enemy of Christ - Satan.

 

Nancy is the wife of Bill Goring, who serves as a gospel preacher and elder for the Chipman Road church of Christ in Lee’s Summit, Missouri. She has 4 children, 11 grandchildren and has taught Bible class for over 40 years, speaks at Ladies Day gatherings and has published several books including: Behavior Becoming Holiness: Studies in Titus Chapter 2 and Overcoming our Self-Imposed Prisons.